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To love someone...To be love by someone...

We really d0n’t fall in and out of l0ve... l0ve is always there it just needs to be tapped in order f0r it to bloss0m...we may never find our s0ul mate in this lifetime but who kn0ws? he or she maybe just beside you waiting...s0mething t0 share...why hold some0ne back...when u kn0w u d0n't l0ve them...why keep them to y0urself... when u kn0w y0u w0n't wanna have them? why let them miss other chances...when they can have them? if you really don't l0ve some0ne....let them go...hurt them n0w...n0t later...for a l0nger relationship builds stronger em0tions... a g0od relati0nship isn't a game y0u play or an eg0trip y0u take...it is about love and tw0 people...loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too...when it does not really hurt when that person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person. Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time...that's the reward and that's the risk...unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it's like to love and be loved...sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have...and there's a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone...it's the difference between a love that's fickle, wild and short-lived and one that's tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time... the first is easy... the second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes work because it's about keeping a relationship...loving someone takes efforts...we have to be able to communicate with each other...nobody can read anyone else's mind...we always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel...maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's never perfect and takes time to develop...getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed...respect him or her for who he or she is, and not what you want him orher to be...everyone is pretty and special in his or her own special way...no one is perfect...it is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other...true love sees and accepts a person for who he or she is...it is also true love which makes a person change for the better...the power of true love to a person is undeniable...a relationship needs commitments too...what is love without commitments from each other anyway? It's like principles and values...everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them...the same goes for our commitments to relationships,and the person we love..."love is like an antique vase...it's hard to find...hard to net...but easy to break..." Every day everywhere, people fall in love ... but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love you"...but more often than not, the truth is just I am in love with you...there is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone...if a person says he or she is in love with you, he or she means that he or she likes you for who you are now and he or she fell in love with you because of the present you...this kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts...when fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship...where both were only in love with each other...but if a person says he or she loves you, he or she means that he or she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and who you might be in the future...when he or she says he or she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him or her too or if you're in love with the idea of being in love...it is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking...let your heart guide you...may you be blessed on your soul-searching journey for your soulmate... ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE? ASK YOURSELF! Is this true love? Do I really love him or her? Or is it just another infatuation? Are you willing to give? Even though you may not get back the same amount you gave? and are you cheating yourself? Thinking that you really love him or her and not just taking him or her as a substitute for your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend? Friends, let today be the day...you truly understand love...if after reading this and answering all the questions, you are very sure that you love him or her, tell him or her that... let him or her know how much you love him or her and that you are willing to take the risks of being hurt by him or her in the course of the development of your relationship with him or her...this is a love that's sacrificial, are you ready for it?

"The night fell at7:52 AM"
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